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The Thirty-Fifth
Breakfast for MiLady
"A Tribute to Mothers"

Saturday, May 9, 2026  |  9:00am

WELCOME

During the month of May, we celebrate the importance of family by honoring mothers throughout San Diego County. Over the years, we have proudly recognized hundreds of women whose love and leadership strengthen our communities. This year, we honor a remarkable class of outstanding mothers in the San Diego community.

 

The San Diego Alumnae Chapter thanks all of you for your continued participation and attendance throughout the past thirty-four years.  

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Message from the President

On behalf of the San Diego Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc., I am delighted to welcome you to our 35th Annual Breakfast for MiLady, “A Tribute to Mothers.”

Each year, this cherished tradition gives us the opportunity to pause, gather, and celebrate women who give so much of themselves to their families and to our community. This Mother’s Day Weekend, we are delighted to recognize an exceptional group of women whose love, leadership, and service make a lasting impact. As the saying goes, “A mother’s love endures through all.” Today, we simply say thank you. We also extend our sincere gratitude to the organizations that have chosen these remarkable women to receive this well-deserved honor.

Breakfast for MiLady Commitee

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Carla Harris

Chairperson

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Lynnetta Watts

Co-Chairperson

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Joyce M. Kercheval

Chairperson Emerita

It is with profound honor that we present to you a distinguished and extraordinary assembly of San Diego’s most accomplished mothers, mentors, and community leaders. With immense pride, we celebrate our Honorees and their remarkable achievements, including their steadfast and enduring commitment to service throughout the San Diego community.
 

These esteemed women have never wavered in their sacred responsibilities: admonishing, assisting, forgiving, giving, listening, loving, mentoring, nurturing, providing, rearing, and teaching the children whom the Sovereign Father entrusted to their care. Their devotion reflects a calling that is both purposeful and profound.
 

Motherhood is a distinct and matchless responsibility—one that holds immeasurable significance in our society. Through their wisdom, sacrifice, and unwavering love, mothers shape the character and cultivate the potential of our future doctors, lawmakers, leaders, professors, and even Presidents of the United States.
 

To our Honorees, we offer our deepest gratitude for your service and your continued dedication to our community. You lead with grace and strength. We salute you for embracing the most magnificent calling of all—transforming lives and leaving an indelible legacy for generations to come.

History of Breakfast for MiLady

The San Diego Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Incorporated held its first Breakfast for MiLady, "A Tribute to Mothers" recognition ceremony in May 1990 to honor women in the community. The initial celebration took place as part of the sorority's annual May Week community celebration. Soror Mary Borders DeWitt* became aware of an event, honoring women in the community, that was held by the Memphis, Tennessee Chapter. Soror DeWitt presented the initial idea for Breakfast for MiLady, patterned after the Memphis, TN event, to the chapter. Soror Barbara West, who was a previous member of the Memphis Chapter, was also instrumental in filling in the missing pieces and laying the foundation for the Breakfast. The Chapter adopted the event.

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The first Committee consisted of Sorors Dale E. Strayhorn (chair), Barbara West (co-chair), Mary B. DeWitt*, Cynthia James, Joyce M. Kercheval, Joyce Parks, Bernice Slaughter* and Janice M. Black Robinson* (then Chapter President). When presented to the Chapter, the event was quickly accepted, and the San Diego Deltas immediately began working to form its Breakfast for MiLady, "A Tribute to Mothers" honoring women from the San Diego Community.

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The initial Honorees were Wendy Babb, Pearl Brigham*, Julia Christian, Mary B. DeWitt*, Algernon Phillips*, Mary Tillory and Octavia Todd. Over the years, this event has grown requiring us to move to larger venues to accommodate larger audiences. 

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Since the beginning, there have been many chairs and committee members who have worked non-stop to ensure our honorees have a day that will be a lifetime memory. Many organizations have presented an honoree year after year.

 

The San Diego Alumnae Chapter thanks all of you for your continued participation and attendance throughout the past thirty years.

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2024 Breakfast For MiLady

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HONOREES

It is with great honor that the San Diego Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. proudly celebrates a distinguished cohort of San Diego’s most exceptional mothers, mentors, and community leaders.
We are honored to celebrate our Honorees’ commitment to their family and serving the community.  These women are trailblazers that selflessly give of their time and talents to worthwhile community projects and programs.

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SOUVENIR AD BOOK

A souvenir book that highlights the honorees and their accomplishments will be published.  The souvenir journal will include congratulatory and business ads.  Ads can be placed in support of an honoree or to promote a business or organization.

MC & Entertainment

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Pastor Leilah Kirkendoll, PhD

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Pastor Leilah Kirkendoll, Ph.D. is a Licensed and Ordained Minister of the Gospel and has been serving in this capacity since 2000, displaying the gifts that God has placed in her to help deliver and encourage others in the name of Jesus Christ. Elder Kirkendoll, as a single mother and divorcee, experienced the power of God in her life in such exciting ways that she felt privileged that God would choose to use her as His vessel to those who need His love and encouragement. While training for this awesome task, she served as the church administrator, Sunday School Superintendent, leader of the Singles Ministry, Minster of the Leaders and eventually the Associate Pastor. This served as a true training ground to the multifaceted approach to ministering to God’s People.

 

A teacher by profession and a director by occupation, sharing God’s Word in a down-to-earth and life applicable manner is what she does best. This approach allows people to see themselves in God’s Plan and ultimately gives them the opportunity to accept His way for their lives. Her style is real and fun and brings to life the infinite possibilities that our God has shared with us in His Word. Dr. Kirkendoll currently serves as an Associate Pastor at Greater Life Church with Pastor Nate Stewart.  As the lead for partnership development and as a member on the leadership team for the Women’s Ministry, she shares her gifts will all she encounters.

 

In her personal life, she has been a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. for over 35 years. In this role she serves as the San Diego Alumnae Chapters’ Chaplain and as the Secondary Advisor to her collegiate chapter, Nu Upsilon. In the community she serves as the Secretary/Treasurer and an Assistant Cheer Coach for Skyline Youth Football and Cheer Organization. She also serves as treasurer and Co-leader of Girl Scout Troop 6786. Probably her most fulfilling role is also her first ministry; that is as the wife of Minister Andre Kirkendoll and as a mother to Khadijah, (30) and Aaliyah (12). God has truly blessed her to bless others and that is what she strives to do, with joy, daily.

 

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DJ

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Entertainment

LOCATION

DoubleTree by Hilton San Diego Mission Valley
7450 Hazard Center Dr, San Diego, CA, 92108

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